A marriage goes through many seasons over the years, and some of these are more satisfying than others. Often the initial phases of a relationship are the most exciting and interesting because everything is so new and fresh. You are learning about each other and discovering something new each day. The familiarity hasn't set in yet, and seeing each other is still exhilarating.
As time passes by, however, what was once new and thrilling can become older and more familiar. The relationship might not seem as exciting as it was in the beginning. Does it ever feel like the excitement has faded in your marriage and has been replaced by the growing demands and responsibilities of married life? If so, there is no need to panic. Don’t mistake this for a negative sign. It’s just a normal progression of all human relationships. All couples get into a rut from time to time. And yet, this is not the type of association that we want with our marriage. No one wants to use words like rut, boring, uninteresting, tedious, monotonous, uninspiring or humdrum when describing their marriage. You’d be hard pressed to find any of these words in a wedding ceremony!
The reality is that it takes sincere effort to keep your marriage growing. A “spicy” marriage takes constant attention, nurture and care on the part of both people to keep the relationship strong, refreshed, alive and exciting.
Could your marriage be a little more romantic, adventurous, spontaneous or more fun? Is your relationship as good as it can get, or has it lost a bit of its pizzazz and could use a boost? If so, here are a few tips that will help you spice up your marriage.
Before Your Adventure
Step 1
You Pick
Take turns each month picking your unique marriage adventure destination. Remember, rather than visiting the same familiar locations and doing the same old routines, try something new and different!
Step 2
Table For Two
This is an "optional" step depending on your budget! If you decide to eat out, try out some different Northwest Arkansas restaurants or click here for a free Spicy Chicken Sandwich coupon at Chick-fil-A.
Step 3
You Are Cordially Invited
Formally invite your beloved on a fun adventure and put the date on your respective calendars.
Step 4
Step 5
Date Guide
Don't forget to make a copy of your date guide for this month's adventure.
